Mughees Anjum

As a traveler of life, we all live in this universe. We all got our feelings, our views. We live life, we get experience. But some time something unexpected thing happens in our life, it was not supposed to be happen, and this accident just leave a huge impact on us. Latter after, the problem is solved, but the impact is still up there. Just for clarification, this impact could be both positive or negative. These impacts some time converge our all the feelings, emotions and attentions and make us feel really bad for a long time. Then at this moment we need a guide to get over it. If you allow me, I can say that in this kind of situations, we need to see this universe as it is, not as we want to see it. It looks very simple, I hope so. Because we all know changing our way of thinking is not that simple. Well never give up can help a little bit to accept this phrase. You have to make yourself understand that universe doesn't work as we think. It has its own way of working an...

Being apart from what philosopher or dictionary says about analyzing, here we are going to take this terms as “keep studying our past”. So while analyzing we will see that we have two sides of our past, first bright one and second dark one. Yeh! It’s true. The thing that matters is on what part of our past we are focused. Why are we focused on that part, the reason is always important, and how it is effective on our present. Today we will try to discuss about most part of this issue.  Analyzing bright side There is no doubt, everyone has a bright side. If we are talking about the bright side, it also includes our life history, experience, behavior, view, strength, ability, action and work. Why to look into bright side We have experienced many time that “life is unpredictable”. Some time it is like a haven but in another moment it goes really bad. The moment when time is really tough, we need to look into bright side so that it can inspire us and give us cou...

We all dream for a beautiful life and try for it. For a beautiful life, it is really important to have a beautiful thought. For this purpose we need to have a very positive thinking mind. The mind that can give us solution for even if the problem is tremendous. The mind that can give us hope even then, when we are in the darkest situation of our life. To having a positive mind we need to feed our brain positiveness time to time. In order to feed the brain positive, we need to learn the process. Differentiate between positive and negative thinking Positive thinking  is a mental and emotional  attitude  that focuses on the bright side of life and expects  positive  results. A person with  positive thinking  mentality anticipates happiness, health and success, and believes that he or she can overcome any obstacle and difficulty. Negative thinking is a thought process where people tend to find the worst in everything, or reduce their expect...

Human beings are blessed with most easy way of transformation of information among whole creature of universe. We have multiple way of conversation. We can talk with words, we an write words, we can use our our body language or we can draw to transfer our information to others. This was one of the greatest revolution in human history and most valuable thin for all man kind. But do you know, talking to yourself is more beneficial than talking to others. Some doctors says it is a kind of disses to talk to yourself. It may be true partially but not completely.  Whenever you need some kind of expert advice just go a side, sit alone, and talk to yourself.  In this whole universe its only you who knows who the really are you and what are you capable of. So, it's only you who can advise you best.  Just you need to collect information from others, sit alon, ask yourself, make conversation as long as you get satisfaction wit yourself. This is the beat way to decide and...

The time period between time of birth and time of death is called life. We undergo in several situations, conditions, feelings and emotions during this period. Some of them are good, some are better and some of them are best. Similarly bad and worst etc. When ever life make something in our favor, we use awesome and best type of words to appreciate. And whenever life make us little uncomfortable we start complaining. Some time this goes worse and worst, and effects on our personal and professional life as well as behavior. Which become very painful memory, no one want to carry around. But there is a very simple way to over ride on our life challenges. We can think this way, life is made by God, and God make every thing perfect, and whatever is inside any perfect structure, is a part of its  perfection. Similarly, our whole life is a perfect structure of time, and whatever is going on inside, is a little part of perfect life. So, we don't need to worry about anything because eve...

If I will say, "humans decision, feeling, emotions have no meaning at all" you must be defended. Don't worry let me explain why i have to say that. Most of beings think that they have to chose their own goal of life, it may be true... But what if say that..... there are two type of goals, one you set for yourself and other you are set for. The goal you set for your self is your plan, willing, your decision that could lead to the dark side of reality and make you blind as much as you can't differentiate between good and evil. An the other goal for that you are set for, is decided by nature... There are lots of consequences in convince yourself to go against you. But believe me, this is the only a right goal to achieve. And this is the only thing we look in our entire life... The right thing.

Experience is a great tool to earn maturity. We always prefer to ask suggestions from others to solve our problems and we solve our problems.. waoo!!            No! its not fare. Asking suggestions is always knows as a brilliant decision. But I don't agree due to being immature. Yes! if you are asking suggestion from someone, its mean you think he has a great experience in this field. But I am talking about your experience. Where it is and how will it be. Never forget," Mistakes are painful when it happen but after years collection of mistakes are called experience which leads to maturity." You can own experience but after attempting some mistakes.             I am just trying to say that, if you have to do anything just do it. Don't ask any one. You decision will end only on two point. First one is in right way, then you are fine. Second one is in wrong way, then you made a mistake. Then don't worry about this mist...

Once someone said: Beings alone is a illness. I am not going against him or say that he was wrong. I just wanna rephrase this, “Being alone is illness if you are depressed”. That mean if you are mature and mentally healthy then you need to stay alone for some time this will give time with you. In which you can go under meditation and look inside you or make yourself more like you. You can experience some great feelings that can build your mature ability. For more easy experience just try walking alone. When you are walking alone you are observing all the things you are passing through and discussing with yourself that is really really important self developing element. Jus try one and experience great feelings...!

Smiling is the best medicine of all time. Some time smile gives you smartness and a unique personality. Smile take you out from your boring moments and make you fresh and an open minded. But the question is how to get a real smile in this painful life? Well..!! Its really a nice question because I have seen many people are suck in there personal life so badly even they don't remember the name of the day of the week. In this kind of business it become more tough to have time to yourself.  But remember one thing smile is necessary to everyone, so don't miss it. You may watch comedy movies, shows etc. but these are time consuming, and you don't have time for these kind of things.  So dear friends what you have to do to make yourself smile is making your self joker. Well Yeh! make some kind of stupid jokes to your self, tell it to yourself and smile on your own jokes. I know it is madness, but it is effective and very very less time consuming.  Then..! what are you wa...

"Talking to yourself, makes you smarter." I don't know who said this and why. But what I know is, if you are talking to yourself then yes you are making yourself smart and mature.  In this busy world, some people have no time for their own family. If they don't have time for their family then looks little difficult to give time to himself. Yeh! giving time to ourself is also an important part of human's life.  Self talking makes you smarter   Smartness is having a clear and nice view for every things. We experience lots of things in our life. There are thousands of thousands thoughts and experiences in our mind. But we never look at them closely and made a clear view. We need time to discuss those topics with ourself and take a clear view. Self talking makes you mature Matureness is a state of  psychologically  well developed brain. To develop human brain you need more time to feed you brain with inspiration, clarification, justification. For all ...

Carrier, is one of the most complicated question of all growing child. They faces lot of questions regarding carrier, and some time it become most difficult to answer. Generally every child become confuse and can't decide where to go? Which carrier he should choose and which do not. Well today I am going to share one of the best speech about carrier I ever seen. I hope this will make your deciding problem much easier.  Once I was watching a Hollywood movie named Twilight Saga Eclipse In the middle of the movie, there was a most inspiring lecture which one I am going to share. The lecture is, " When we were five they asked us, "what we wanted to be when we grew up?". Our answers were things like astronaut, president, or in my case, a princess. When we were ten they asked again and we answered, rock star, cowboys, or in my case, a gold medalist. But now when we have grown up, they want a serious answer. Well, how about this...... who the how knows? This is not t...

Problems are the very unwanted part of human life. Some of them are big and some are small, some could be solve easily and some couldn't, some of them are painful and some of them are worse. But most common thing among all of these is they are unwanted. This is what, all of us know very clearly. But what we don't think about is the reason, why we face the problems. Why the problems happen again and again in our life. What will you say if I define the problem as an ' uncompleted tasks'  left in our past (it doesn't matter if it is left by you or someone else). Yes! I am right. Let me clarify it for you. Think a while what do you do to solve your problem, just some kind of work. The work that was to be done on its proper time and now, when it’s too late you are doing it, because it as to be done. That's why you need to finish all of your tasks on its time. If you will do all your tasks on its time then you are not going to face problems due to your unfi...